10 But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly, that now at the last your care of me hath flourished again; wherein ye were also careful, but ye lacked opportunity.
11 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.
12 I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.
13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
Philippians 4:10-13
What are things we become discontent over?
What Causes Discontentment?
- Selfishness
- Lack of gratitude
- Love of money
- Envy/Jealousy
- Unmet or unfulfilled expectations
- Failure of self or someone else
- Physical or mental inabilities
- Comparing ourselves with others
- Letting our circumstances control our attitude
- Failure to understand or accept the sovereignty of God
What are the Negative Effects of Discontentment?
- Irritable/grumpy attitude
- Bitter/angry spirit
- Sad/depressed mood
- Critical spirit
- Pessimistic attitude
- Never satisfied – always wanting more, better, or different
- Unthankful heart
- Ungodly spirit
- Loss of friendships
- Harm to your testimony
Contentment has nothing to do with what you have. It has everything to do with who you are.
How to be content?
Let’s look at Paul’s present state:
- Paul’s circumstances
- Paul’s continuing education (verses 11-12)
Paul learned contentment in two ways:
- In poverty
- In plenty
Paul’s contentment
Here’s a good summary of his attitude in life and unshakeable contentment no matter what the circumstance:
- verse 1:12
- verses 1:15, 18
- verse 1:21
- verses 2:3-4
- verses 2:13-14
- verses 3:7-8
- verse 3:13
- verse 4:4
- verse 4:10
- verse 4:11
- verse 4:13
- verse 4:19
Paul’s confidence
It was completely in Christ in everything. Paul was completely dependent upon the Lord for his life. (verse 13) Are you? It’s the secret to true contentment!